I have been wrestling with my weight ever since I could remember. It's not something I'm proud of, and I have always had a bit of low self esteem because of it all. A few years ago, I said enough was enough and I began to loose the weight. I've pretty much hit a plateau. And now-a-days I am in a constant battle. On one hand, I want to be happy in my skin. Happy with how I am. Enjoy life, and not always be concerned about my weight. On the other hand, I am still sickened by what I look like. I feel like I am still unhealthy. I don't get this from many outside force... in fact my husband is probably the most supportive of the way I look. He has always liked my "curves". I know that it is mostly just my perception and societal values on thinness that is coming at me.
In society, we are still completely obsessed with being thin, and many are upset with the prejudice that happens with overweight people... but I think that there is a way that we can not coddle people who are extremely obese and being understanding. I do not think that we need to be making allowances for people who are very overweight. Yes, I do believe that we should be charging extra for people who are over a certain weight for things like plane tickets, or if you need to take up 2 seats on a train or bus. I'm sorry, but that should be a reason to loose the weight.
I may add more on this later... my thoughts are swirling in my head.
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